Relationships & Energy

🔥 Stage 4: Relationships & Energy

“Why do I keep attracting the same kind of people and why do I feel drained when I love?”

Hey Beautiful Soul,

You’ve been doing the work.
You’ve been waking up, unpacking your patterns, and starting to heal.
And now you’re seeing the truth about your relationships.

That friend who always needed saving...
That “almost” partner who never fully showed up…
That old version of you who gave and gave, just to keep the peace...

It’s all starting to feel heavy because your energy is waking up.

💬 What You Might Be Noticing:

• You’re drained after certain conversations

• You feel yourself shrinking, overgiving, or people-pleasing

• You crave deep love, but fear getting hurt again

• You’re pulling away or clinging tighter, and you don’t know why

• You’ve outgrown people but don’t know how to explain it

This isn’t you being “too much.”
It’s you becoming aware.

You’re no longer blind to how your energy interacts with others.
You’re realizing: Love without boundaries isn’t love, it’s leakage.

🧠 What’s Actually Happening

Your relationships are mirrors.
They reflect your patterns, your energy, and the parts of you still looking to be chosen, rescued, or validated.

And here’s the truth:

Until you change your inner relationship with yourself, your outer relationships will keep repeating the same story with different faces.

This stage is about energy literacy:
How you give, how you receive, and how you hold yourself when you love.

🧰 What Helps in This Stage

1. Start With You

Ask:

“What part of me chose this dynamic?”
Not as blame but as power. You can’t shift a pattern you won’t own.

2. Balance Your Masculine & Feminine Energy

Are you always leading, fixing, planning, proving?
Or collapsing, waiting, withdrawing, avoiding?

Healing isn’t about switching extremes.
It’s about learning to lead and receive, assert and soften, trust and choose.

3. Honor Your Nervous System

• Love shouldn’t feel like eggshells

• Peace isn’t boring, it’s safe

• Anxiety isn’t passion, it’s dysregulation
  Your body knows. Listen to it.

4. Stop Negotiating with Red Flags

If someone consistently drains, confuses, or disrespects you
that’s not your person, that’s your mirror asking you to choose yourself.

5. Practice Energetic Hygiene

Clear your field. Ground after connection.
Say: “I call all my energy back to me. I release what’s not mine.”
You’re not meant to carry other people’s emotional weight.

🛠 Tools We Offer to Help

• ✅ Relationship Pattern Tracker
  So you can clearly see who you attract and why

• ✅ Masculine & Feminine Energy Lessons
  To help you shift your relational energy in everyday life

• ✅ Energetic Boundaries Worksheet
  To protect your energy without isolating

• ✅ Conversation Scripts
  To express your truth without self-abandoning

• ✅ Raw Blog Posts
  On healed love, people-pleasing, codependency, and emotional safety

💬 Final Message

You don’t have to earn love.
You don’t have to shrink to be safe.
You don’t have to explain your needs to people committed to misunderstanding them.

You get to be loved while being fully you.
You get to rest in love not just reach for it.

We’ve done the loops. We’ve stayed too long.
And we’ve also learned how to build a love that heals, holds, and expands.

You deserve that kind of love too.
Let’s call your energy back and move differently now.

With clarity,
Awakened Wild Souls
Healing in love, energy, and truth.